Wednesday, August 12, 2020

NBtM Virtual Book Tour and Giveaway - They Called Me 33: Reclaiming Ingo-Waabigwan by Karen Chaboyer

Welcome to my stop on the NBtM virtual book tour for They Called Me 33: Reclaiming Ingo-Waabigwan by Karen Chaboyer. This tour was organized by Goddess Fish Promotions. On my stop, I have an excerpt for you as well as a highly interesting video from the author (seriously, give it a watch). There's also a tour wide giveaway for a chance to win a $20 Amazon or Barnes & Noble gift card. Be sure to follow the rest of the tour for more content. Enjoy!
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Title: They Called Me 33: Reclaiming Ingo-Waabigwan
Author: Karen Chaboyer
Publisher: Tellwell Talent
Publication Date: March 18th 2020
Print Length: 352 pages
Genre: Autobiography/Memoir
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Karen longed for acceptance, validation and love, but had no ability to form healthy, meaningful relationships. Born into a large family already suffering the effects of two generations of residential school, and surviving her own nine years at St. Margaret Indian Residential School, Karen (like everyone she knew) had been systematically stripped of her dignity, identity, language, culture, family and community support systems.

Not wanting to be alone as an adult, Karen tolerated unhealthy relationships with family and partners. Still, she was coping. But after suffering further trauma, Karen turned to alcohol and other addictions to numb her pain.

Eventually, Karen found the strength to reach out for help. She learned to grieve through layers of shame and was finally able to embrace her identity. Karen also discovered what has long been known in her culture – the healing power of sharing your story. Karen would now like to share this book, her story, with you.

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EXCERPT:
My Childhood

It was a hot sunny day; a soothing breeze was flowing off the lake through the open screened windows. My mother and I were both lying sideways across a double bed, next to the open window, enjoying the afternoon together. I was on my stomach, legs in the air, as my eyes followed a bee buzzing around outside the screen window. My mother was lying on her side, legs dangling off the bed. She was a hard-working woman, young in spirit, all the while loving her family. There was no rest, having twelve children to tend to, but that afternoon she was taking a break with me anyway. Out of the blue, I asked, “Mom, what was it like when you gave birth to me?”

Mom looked out the window, reminiscing on the day she gave birth to me. Her face brightened as she began to tell her story. She said she went into labour the wee hours of the morning, and as the sun began to appear across the horizon, she prepared for her journey into town, packing a suitcase with her belongings and some baby clothes. My mother prayed that she would make it to the hospital on time. She had plenty of experience giving birth.

Dad took the suitcase down to the boat. There, he carefully prepared our big ole fishing boat for the trip by making sure there was plenty of gas and by laying blankets on the floor of the boat, so Mom could lie down as she bore each contraction. As my mother wobbled down the hill toward my dad, he grabbed her hand and helped her into the boat. He made sure she was comfortable on the blankets before starting their journey. Like all dad’s, he was nervous. He remained silent and hoped they would make it into town on time. The two-hour ride seemed like eternity.

The water was calm and serene and looked like a glass mirror. There was no breeze, and all you could hear was the motor putting slowly across the lake. Occasionally, my mother moaned in pain as she would breathe into each contraction. While gasping, Mom saw a stork flying across the lake as they approached our Couchiching First Nation reserve. Immediately, upon seeing the stork, Mom had suspicious thoughts that her baby might be taken away. She prayed that she would make it to the hospital safely and that I would be healthy.

As my parents approached land, houses appeared on the lakeshore, and she knew that things would be fine. As Dad docked the boat, he climbed out of the boat and opened his hands to help Mom out of the boat. Once he had the boat docked and Mom was safely on land with her personal belongings, he ran to the nearest house to call a taxi. The trip to the hospital was only a ten-minute drive, but they had railway tracks to cross. If the tracks were blocked by a train it would prevent them from getting into town.

God answered their prayers, and everything turned out fine. Mom explained that I was a dry birth because her water broke several hours before I was born. Despite it all, Mom and Dad became proud parents once again. I was now the tenth child and second girl in the family. It was mandatory that we stayed in the hospital for the next ten days as my mother recuperated and regained her strength. When we checked out, I had a good bill of health.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Karen Chaboyer is an Ojibwa mother and grandmother from Rainy River First Nations, a community in northwestern Ontario. She is proudly admired by her children, who have witnessed her transformation as she worked through layers of shame and learned to embrace her identity. A second-generation survivor of residential school, Karen now shares her experiences with audiences throughout the Toronto area, where she now resides. Karen's goal is to educate people on the extent to which the tragedies of the residential school system have impacted individuals, families, communities and entire cultures to this day.

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AUTHOR VIDEO:
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GIVEAWAY:
Karen Chaboyer will be awarding a $20 Amazon or Barnes & Noble gift card to a randomly drawn winner via Rafflecopter after the tour. To increase your chance of winning, leave a comment at a different stop on the tour each day. Good luck!
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48 comments:

  1. Great post and I appreciate getting to find out about another great book. Thanks for all you do and for the hard work you put into this. Greatly appreciated!

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  2. This sounds like a great book

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  3. Great excerpt and trailer, I enjoyed checking them out!

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  4. Review says - Karen longed for acceptance, validation and love, but had no ability to form healthy, meaningful relationships.
    I would so enjoy this book!
    Thank you for sharing the review.

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  5. I like the cover. It has a cute photo and nice artwork

    abfantom at yahoo dot com

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  6. Do you have any ideas for a follow up?

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  7. I also have past shames that have hindered me.. Finding a sense of "belonging" is SO important. I could definitely benefit from this book.

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  8. I look forward to reading. I’ve got to say, many of us out here, can identify. Thanks for sharing and for the giveaway.

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  9. I am glad the author has survived her troubles and is trying to help others.

    Nancy
    allibrary (at) aol (dot) com

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  10. Neat book, glad to have come across this.

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  11. the book cover goes with the story , the book sounds interesting.

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  12. Intriguing cover. Thanks for giveaway.

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  13. I'm glad Karen is sharing her story. It must be cathartic to share and heal

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  14. What a fascinating story! It sounds inspiring.

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  15. It sounds like an interesting book. Thank you for sharing.

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  16. Can't wait to read. Sounds very moving.

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  17. Love the cover too! Thanks so much for sharing with us!😻

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  18. I liked the cover, this story sounds really emotional

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  19. I think that the cover of your book is unique and very attention grabbing.

    Nancy
    allibrary (at) aol (dot) com

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  20. The title sounds very intriguing. Thanks for the giveaway!

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  21. "Karen (like everyone she knew) had been systematically stripped of her dignity, identity, language, culture, family and community support systems."

    Wow, what a shame. Thanks for the giveaway!

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  22. What was your favourite book as a kid?

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  23. This sounds like an inspiring book.

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  24. What is your five year plan for writing?

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  25. What have you felt discouraged writing?

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  26. What was your best writing moment?

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  27. What was your favourite book as a kid?

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  28. What was your biggest writing mistake?

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  29. Karen Chaboyer is a new author to me, but I look forward to reading this. I always love meeting new authors. Thanks to this blog for the introduction.

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